
The Wedding Banquet Guest
Before reading this commentary, I encourage you to first read the text of Matthew chapter twenty-two.
Verses 1-7
Once again, Jesus spoke to them in parables:
“The kingdom of heaven is like a king (God) who prepared a wedding banquet for his son (Jesus). He sent his servants (the profits) to call those he had invited (the Israelites) to the banquet, but they refused to come.
Again, he sent other servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner. My oxen and fattened cattle have been killed, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’
But they paid no attention and went away, one to his field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants, (the profits) mistreated them, and killed them.
The king was enraged, and he sent his troops to destroy those murderers and burn their city.
(2 Kings 24:2) – And the LORD sent Chaldean, Aramean, Moabite, and Ammonite raiders against Jehoiakim in order to destroy Judah, according to the word that the LORD had spoken through His servants the prophets.
(Jeremiah 25:8-9) – Therefore this is what the LORD of Hosts says: ‘Because you have not obeyed My words, behold, I will summon all the families of the north, declares the LORD, and I will send for My servant Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon, whom I will bring against this land, against its residents, and against all the surrounding nations. So I will devote them to destruction and make them an object of horror and contempt, an everlasting desolation.
Verses 8-10
Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited were not worthy. Go therefore to the crossroads and invite to the banquet as many as you can find.’ So the servants went out into the streets and gathered everyone they could find, both evil and good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.
Make note of the fact that God instructed them to invite as many as they could find. The servants then gathered everyone they could find. The phrases “as many as you can find” and “gathered everyone they could find” shows us that God is calling everyone. God is telling his servants to invite everyone. Anyone they find, they should invite. Every human being today is invited.
But why does verse 10 say both evil and good? We are going to see in these next verses that there are some Christians who come to the banquet, but end up getting thrown out….Let’s take a look now.
Verses 11-12
But when the king came in to see the guests, he spotted a man who was not dressed in wedding clothes (He was not filled with the Holy Spirit). ‘Friend,’ he asked, ‘how did you get in here without wedding clothes (without the Holy Spirit)?’ But the man was speechless.
Salvation is by faith. Those who put their faith in Jesus are filled with the Holy Spirit (i.e. they are dressed in wedding clothes).
A person can know about Jesus and yet make the mistake of trusting in themselves, incorrectly believing their salvation will come about because they were a good person. It’s entirely possible for a lay person, a church member, a deacon, an elder, or even a pastor or priest to be deeply involved in church activities, ministries, helping the poor, feeding the hungry, etc… and yet not have put their faith in Jesus Christ.
This is the individual who shows up to the wedding banquet without wedding clothes (i.e. The Holy Spirit). They are the person who claimed to be a Christian, yet never put their faith in Christ.
Think about it this way: My first job was mowing grass on a golf course. The employee handbook stated that employees can have one free round of golf per day. Every day I got up at 5:00am. By 6:00am I was on the mower, going from the number one green to the number two green and then onto the number three, etc…etc…. When I finished mowing all 18 greens, I then had to go back and move the holes on each green, I had to maintain the mowers, I had to work on the sprinklers. Our work was to keep the whole golf course running. At the end of the day, I was tired and wanted only to go home and sit down. As a result, I never once took advantage of the free round of golf.
Later, when I was about 40 years old and was reflecting on my life, it occurred to me just how big of an opportunity I had missed. The golf course had a pro-shop. In the pro-shop was a full-time golf instructor. The golf instructor was my coworker. He and I were both employees of the golf course. When I was young, it never once occurred to me that as an employee, he too got a free round of golf every day. I could have asked him to go golfing with me every day. And during such, I could have gotten free golfing lessons from him. I was in my late teens when I worked there.
Now consider this: A young man, 18 and 19 years old, playing 18 holes of golf every day for free and bringing with him a golf instructor. Who knows, perhaps I could have become a professional golfer. Perhaps I could have joined the PGA Tour. When I look back at my life in hindsight, I consider this to be a missed opportunity. I worked at the golf course, but I never played golf.
Likewise, there are many Christians who attend church, volunteer at church, or are even employed by the church, but have yet to put their faith in Christ. It doesn’t matter the denomination. Every Church in America has someone in the congregation or parish who hasn’t yet put their faith in Christ even though they appear, on the outside, to be such a devout Christian.
God judges the heart. We, however, are not able to see into people’s hearts. All that we can do to ascertain someone’s sincerity is examine their actions and speech. Each of us, on the day of judgement, will be shocked at some point, to see who is getting kicked out of the wedding banquet.
How do you know if you are such a person? Ask Jesus! One of the biggest aspects of putting our faith in Christ is that we rely upon Him rather than ourselves. So I am literally instructing you to right now, ask Jesus Christ to help you to put your faith in him and to fill you with the Holy Spirit.
Here is a prayer: “Lord Jesus, help me to put my faith in you. Please fill me with the Holy Spirit.”
Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. (Matthew 7:7-8)
Verse 13
Then the king told the servants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’
This, of course, is referring to hell. The individual who is not filled with the Holy Spirit upon their earthly death will be thrown into hell.
Verse 14
For many are called, but few are chosen.
God sent his servants to invite everyone they could find. “Many are called”. This is the great commission. God wants every Christian to go out into the world and share the gospel (to invite everyone), so that every person on earth might have the opportunity to hear what Jesus has done for them. All are invited; everyone.
The skeptic might ask, “What about those who never hear about Jesus?” To which I would answer, “Where no missionaries go, Jesus goes there himself.” This is the reason, I suspect, why so many Muslims have dreams about Jesus. There are many places in the Islamic middle east where missionaries do not venture. In those places, Jesus goes there himself.
“Few are chosen”. Those who are chosen are those who choose to put their faith in Christ. “to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12b)
Verses 15-16
Then the Pharisees went out and conspired to trap Jesus in His words. They sent their disciples to Him along with the Herodians. “Teacher,” they said, “we know that You are honest and that You teach the way of God in accordance with the truth…
Ah Ha! So they admit that Jesus teaches the way of God and the truth! By making this admission they are declaring themselves guilty of conspiring against God! Woe to them on their day of judgment. As I have stated before, one of my prayers is that I might have the opportunity to be seated in the gallery of God’s court room. I have always found court room dramas fascinating. I’m very interested to hear what the Pharisees will have to say for themselves while standing before the glorified Jesus Christ to give an account for their deliberate rejection of him.
Verses 17-18
So tell us what You think: Is it lawful to pay taxes to Caesar or not?” But Jesus knew their evil intent and said, “You hypocrites, why are you testing Me?
These are supposed to be the spiritual leaders of Israel, yet here they are testing Jesus.
Do not test the LORD your God as you tested Him at Massah (Deuteronomy 6:16)
At Massah the Israelites quarreled with Moses, and they tested the LORD, saying, “Is the LORD among us or not?” What a coincidence, here are the spiritual leaders of Israel asking the exact same thing again, “Is the Lord among us or not?” Their Messiah is standing right in front of them, yet all they want to do is argue with him.
Verses 19-22
Jesus then proceeds to completely side step the trap they had set for him, leaving them amazed.
Verses 23-29
The Sadducees, who say there is no resurrection…
Have you ever noticed that the Pharisees and Sadducees appear to be colleagues? Perhaps they are even friends, yet they have vastly different spiritual beliefs. Meanwhile, Jesus shows up, also with vastly different spiritual believes and both the Pharisees and Sadducees hate him, even to the point of wanting to kill him.
Today in America, people strive for equity, diversity, tolerance and inclusion when it comes to all other religions except Christianity. Christians are at times treated with disdain and intolerance. This phenomenon however, serves only to illustrate that of all world religions, Christianity stands apart. Many Christians point to this as evidence of the truth of God’s Word. The world hates God, therefore the world hates Christians.
The Sadducees, come to Jesus with a hypothetical scenario in order to question him about the resurrection, in which they don’t even believe anyway. Their question involves seven brothers and one wife. The question culminates with them asking whose wife she will be in the resurrection. But here is what I want you, the reader of this commentary, to focus on: Jesus responds “You are mistaken because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God.”
Every single error that you might have in your understanding of who God is, comes entirely from your lack of knowledge of scripture. Remember, when Jesus was in the desert being tempted by Satan, every single rebuttal that Jesus gave to Satan started with, “It is written”. The way in which we overcome demonic influence in our lives is by knowing well the Word of God. The only way we can know well the word of God is by faithfully and consistently reading it.
It has become very apparent to me in recent years that many Christians, perhaps most, do not read the Bible but instead form their religious beliefs based either on what someone else has told them, or by their own self-invented spirituality based upon personal experiences, inner feelings and selfish desires.
I have encountered Christians, both in person and via the internet, who, when asked about their spiritual beliefs, have stated opinions so far removed from Biblical truth that it causes me to be left in awe at how any person, claiming to be a Christian, could have possibly landed on such ridiculous conclusions.
27% of Americans do not read books. Another 20% read books reluctantly. The Bible has over 1,000 pages and is a serious undertaking to read especially for those who are not accustomed to reading books. We can all agree that it’s a big commitment to read the entire Bible, not to mention studying it in detail and reading it multiple times over the course of one’s life.
For comparison, here are a few famous novels that each contain over 1,000 pages:
• Les Misérables by Victor Hugo (~1,400 pages)
• War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy (~1,200 pages)
• The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas (~1,200 pages)
• The Lord of the Rings (as a single volume) by J.R.R. Tolkien (~1,100 pages)
• Gone with the Wind by Margaret Mitchell (~1,000 pages)
Consider this: All Quiet on the Western Front, a story of world war one by Erich Remarque, has just 240 pages. The book itself is only 6 inches tall by 4 inches wide and has merely 12 chapters, yet despite its small size, it took me six months to read. This wasn’t because I’m a slow reader, but because I would read a chapter and then put the book down for 2 or 3 weeks before picking it up again to read the next chapter.
If I have a choice between reading a book or casting my line into the surf, I’ll always prefer to go fishing. Or if given the choice between reading a novel or watching the movie adaptation, I’d prefer to watch the movie. Reading a book is to me like work, but I know that if I don’t read the Bible, how in the world am I possibly going to know what to believe about God?
Jesus said “a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and in truth, for the Father is seeking such as these to worship Him. God is Spirit, and His worshipers must worship Him in spirit and in truth.” (John 4:23-24)
There are tricksters, hucksters and scam artists out there who use the name of Christ in order to advance their own fame and fortune. There are churches with 15,000 people in the congregation following a pastor who used their money to buy for himself an 18,000 square foot home. The only possible way to know if what you are seeing and hearing from a pastor, priest or other bible teachers is true, is to read the Word of God yourself while simultaneously asking Jesus to give you an understanding of what it all means.
So how do you read a 1,000 page book when you’d prefer to do anything other than read a book? First, ask Jesus to give you a love for the Bible. Then, start with the New Testament. That is where the largest bulk of Christian theology is concentrated, and is also where we get to see the Old Testament in hindsight, making it much easier to understand when you begin reading the Old Testament.
Second; just read for five minutes a day. By no means am I suggesting you read one verse. That’s too little and leads to taking verses out of context. But you can find five minutes a day to read the Bible without experiencing any inconvenience. This is a good place to start building up your reading endurance. If you love the Lord, you will make the time.
I also encourage you to listen to the Bible. Not as an alternative to reading, but in addition to reading. By listening to a recording of someone reading the Bible, and by setting the playback speed to 1.5x, you can get through the entire New Testament in 90 days. As a matter of fact, there are 90-day New Testament reading plans which include audio formats.
Verses 30-33
Even though our bodies stop functioning and go into the grave, those who are saved, are not dead. Eternal life means being alive forever.
Verses 34-40
Take careful notice that loving God is the greatest commandment. It is of higher priority than loving your neighbor. There are many churches today who are so fixated on showing love to their neighbors, that they forsake the higher priority of loving God. Some pastors are ashamed of God and would rather give hugs to everyone than to inform anyone of their need to repent of their sins.
If my neighbor’s house were on fire, would it be loving of me to say and do nothing while watching them burn to death inside their home? No! The loving thing to do would be to run over there and pound on their front door screaming at them to get out of the house.
Any pastor who leaves a person in their sin, does not love them. The Christian who tells others that they are on a path to hell, is the one who loves them. Now having said that, there are within every culture, right and wrong ways to go about doing that. In America, its typically frowned upon to walk up to a stranger and scream at them. In America we have a saying “We don’t care how much you know until we know how much you care.” This typically begins by building a relationship.
Verses 41-46
“What do you think about the Christ? Whose son is He?”
The identity of Christ is an extremely important question. Again, “His worshipers must worship Him in truth” (John 4:24 paraphrased). Who exactly is Jesus?
The Pharisees answer correctly when they said that the Christ is descended from David. Thus, the Messiah (Jesus) is fully man. He is made of flesh and bone. He has a beating heart. He breathes air in and out of his lungs no different than you and I.
“How then”, Jesus asks, “does David in the Spirit call Him ‘Lord’?” The phrase “In the Spirit” simply means that when David was writing the Psalms, he was writing them through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. But what I want to focus on now is that David calls Him Lord.
A person wouldn’t normally call a son Lord. But, in fact, David does call the Christ Lord. What this is showing us is that Jesus is both fully man (a descendant of David) and fully divine. Jesus Christ is God.